Alpha Dog

Coconut did very well when we had company last night. He barked when they came in the door but stopped when told. Coconut was very well behaved and they were all impressed with him.
Later while relaxing we invited Coco up on the couch to share in some cuddling. When our dog went to sit nearby, Coco growled (to keep him away from my husband) so he was taken off the couch, with a firm "no". Makes us feel so mean, but we know it is important for Coco to be taught who is Alpha in this home.
Here is a good article on becoming the Alpha in your home

http://www.pets.ca/dogs/articles/whos-in-charge/